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Whoa…Weird! July 31, 2008

Filed under: Randomness!, what on earth? — barefootelegance @ 11:07 pm
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So the most hilarious thing happened to me this week. I was hanging out at the library (’cause that’s how I roll), and I decided to pick up a movie or two to watch with my family. I walked over to the movie section and started looking for something interesting. About that time, a young guy came over and began to do the same thing. I glanced at him out of the corner of my eye, just to make sure he wasn’t premeditating stealing my purse or anything, and the impression came that he reminded me of someone I know. I checked again: tall, slim, beard, shoulder-length brown hair, pulled back into a ponytail. Whoa. Weird. He really did remind me of a friend from school–a friend I had previously thought to be so unique that I’d never find anyone else who even came close to reminding me of him. Apparently there’s been some cloning going on…

The guy reached for a copy of the original Pink Panther, then plopped down on the ground cross-legged and began to talk to himself, debating whether he should get that movie, or another off-beat comedy. Oh, my word, I thought, he not only kinda looks similar, he kind of acts like him! Weird!

I reached past the guy for a copy of Pride and Prejudice, and he asked me whether i’d ever seen Pink Panther. I told him I hadn’t, and that’s where it began. From there, we introduced ourselves, and began to talk about movies…and books…and musicals…and theatre…and people in general…and humour…suffice it to say that we kept talking. For a solid hour. Wow!

After about an hour, and having migrated to the very center of the library (no harm in being clearly visible, for safety), he left to go get some dinner, but not before he had mused several times on how amazing it was to find another person who still read books, and not only that, who read a variety of books, and appreciated them, and not only that, someone other than his girlfriend who would stand there and talk with him for an hour and understand all the topic changes (which happened for him, as for me, on average once every 14 seconds). Also not before he had given me not only his name, but his place of employment, and a rough idea of his schedule, and where he likes to hang out…bad idea. i didn’t give him any of those besides my name. I guess I’m not very threatening looking.

As he left, I went back over to the movie section, to hunt for a couple movies–what I’d planned on doing an hour ago, basically. As I reached for a movie, I heard a man behind me whisper “Pssst…miss!”

Great. A 40-year-old man. Apparently I was attracting all the random men that day?

“Can I help you?” I asked. “Go after that boy and give him your number! I think he likes you!” the man replied.

Matchmaking. Just another free service offered by your local library. For your convenience, we now have 40-year-old men to match up the young people who run into each other in the library.

I assured the man that I had it under control. Should’ve told him I was taken (admittedly, that’d be “reserved for my future husband”, but “taken” would probably have gotten him off my back easier)!

So I went home and realised: my sisters were at camp. Sad day. I couldn’t even tell them right away, so I wrote them to tell the story. I can just see their faces when they read the letter: “We haven’t bee gone 8 hours, and she’s already getting picked up by random guys in the library! She can’t function without us!”

Ah well. They say variety is the spice of life. And I’d say randomness of this sort is quite a bit of variety. Spicy!

 

More soundtracks…lol July 27, 2008

Filed under: Randomness! — barefootelegance @ 12:16 pm
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Another of the random music library movie of your life thingys…fun!

Opening credits: Here’s My Life–BarlowGirl (nice start)

Waking up: All’Improvviso Amore–Josh Groban

First day at school: My Girl’s Ex-Boyfriend–Relient K

Falling in love: I Love You to Death–Family Force 5 (amazing!)

Fight song: Caroline–Seventh Day Slumber

Breaking up: Porcelain Heart–BarlowGirl (WOW! I’m getting some good ones here!)

Prom: Living on a Prayer–Stellar Kart

Mental breakdown: Never Alone–BarlowGirl

Driving: A Deer’s Cry–Lisa Kelly

Flashback: Let Me Fall–Josh Groban

Getting back together:Gone–Switchfoot (lol)

Wedding:The Hand Song–Nickel Creek

Final Battle: Mighty Fine Blues–Holes Soundtrack

Death Scene: The Next Big Thing–FM Static

Funeral song: The Blessing–Celtic Woman

End Credits: One Thousand Apologies–Demon Hunter

WOW! That had a lot of good ones!

And again…

Opening credits: Everything That You Ever Wanted–Hawk Nelson

Waking up: Class Reunion (That Used To Be Us)–Lonestar

First day at school: Lemonade–Chris Rice

Falling in love: Strong Enough–Stacie Orrico

Fight song: You’ll Never Walk Alone–Daniel Rodriguez

Breaking up: Santa Claus Is Thumbin’ To Town–Relient K

Prom: The Situation–Krystal Meyers

Mental breakdown: Hallelujah–Krystal Meyers

Driving: That Gets Me–Lonestar

Flashback: The Art of Breaking–Thousand Foot Krutch

Getting back together: Summer Wind–Michael Buble (lol)

Wedding: The One I’m Waiting For–Relient K

Final Battle: When In Doubt–Thousand Foot Krutch

Death Scene: This Is Your Life–Switchfoot (WOW! perfect)

Funeral song: The Lie–Matthew West

End Credits: Tears of the Saints–Leeland

 

Hold On July 12, 2008

Filed under: Good Stuff — barefootelegance @ 8:46 pm
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I really like this song; it seems to be giving great encouragement to a friend. Sometimes holding on is the best thing to do! Favourite parts are once again bolded!

“Hold On”

Jonas Brothers
We don’t have time left to regret (hold on)
It will take more than common sense (hold on)
So stop your wondering, take a stand (hold on)
There’s more to life than just to live (hold on)

Cause an empty room can be so loud
It’s too many tears to drown them out
So hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on

One single smile, a helping hand (hold on)
It’s not that hard to be a friend (hold on)
So don’t give up, stand ’til the end (hold on)
There’s more to life than just to live (hold on)

Cause an empty room can be so loud
It’s too many tears to drown them out
So hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on

When you love someone
And they break your heart
Don’t give up on love
Have faith, restart
Just hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on

When it falls apart
And your feeling lost
All your hope is gone
Don’t forget to hold on, hold on

Cause an empty room can be so loud
It’s too many tears to drown them out
So hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on

When you love someone
And they break your heart
Don’t give up on love
Have faith, restart
Just hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on

Cause an empty room can be so loud
It’s too many tears to drown them out
So hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on

When you love someone
And they break your heart
Don’t give up on love
Have faith, restart
Just hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on

 

Please to Viewing the Following Informations… July 6, 2008

Filed under: Rants — barefootelegance @ 11:24 pm
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I am not the only one who has noticed the need that today’s manufacturers feel to place warning labels on everything. This is common (annoying) knowledge, and probably aimed at avoiding lawsuits.

But may I say that they might not need so many warning labels if they’d get some native English speakers to write their instruction manuals?

Please understand. I know some very nice people whose first language is not English. I’m not getting onto them at all. But these instruction manuals make NO SENSE WHATSOEVER.

The sentence structure is enough to make me cringe. Apparently Yoda got a job writing microwave oven manuals, ’cause see Star Wars you must before understand them you can.

And to top that, the actual words they use half the time have nothing to do with the actual product or its use.

Given this information, I have narrowed down the culprits: clearly the proprietors of icanhascheezburger.com are writing our small appliance manuals. This must be stopped.

To anyone who wants to argue this point, I have just one thing to say…

Thank you.

 

My “Business” June 19, 2008

Filed under: Action Calls, Rants — barefootelegance @ 1:23 pm
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So I’m talking with a friend, and she up and says it. The phrase that drives me crazy.

“I mean, if (he/she/they/it) is (fill in the blank), it’s none of my business…”

Can I go on record as saying that the phrase “It’s none of my business” drives me crazy?

Now, some things really “aren’t my business”. But when our little fill in the blank up there is something harmful or destructive, and the person talking is using “it’s none of my business” as a gossip cover, that ticks me off.

But what’s even worse is when it’s a cover for inaction.

It feels like a holdover from Cain: “Wasn’t my day to watch him, God, not real sure where Abel went, after all, it’s none of my business!”

It feels like a form of irresponsibility to overuse that phrase. Maybe we could make a better world if a few more things were our business.

Like the lady with unexplained bruises. Or the girl crying off in a corner. Or the boy with a perpetual scowl and clenched fists. Or that person with a perpetual look of fear who jumps evey time someone comes into the room. Or the one who can’t look you in the eyes. Or the one who has the “flu” all the time, who’s depressed and a loner.

Maybe they are our “business”. This careless attitude we have may only perpetuate pain for these people.

Maybe we should all start looking out for each other. Is it my “business” to say so?